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Support Tween Pilot Program for LGBTQ at Skylark - formerly known as Delisle and Oolagen
In January 2016 we realized the child we thought was
our daughter was really our son. Noah texted his mother “I am transgender.” We
sat down with our child and asked “What do you need from us.” He said “I need
to be who I am and I am a boy”. We told him we would make it happen. We told
him that we were so proud to be his parents and he is the bravest person either
of us know. We took Nora to a barber shop on Church Street. As
they cut Nora’s long hair we saw a light go on in our child’s eyes that we had
not seen in quite a while. We came into the barber shop with Nora and left with
Noah. We went shopping and got him boys clothes and that Monday he went back to
school as Noah. He stood up in classes and told his classmates that he is a
boy. Our next step was research. Neither of us knew any
transgender people or parents of transgender kids, we had to educate ourselves.
What we found was frightening. A recent Trans Pulse study of Ontario trans
youth showed that 70% of youth who are not in supportive homes had considered
suicide in the last year and that 57 % had attempted suicide[i].
We committed to making sure that we did absolutely everything in our power to
make sure that Noah not only survives but grows up to be all that he can be. The best way to do this is to support Noah and
help him transition. We told our family and friends about Noah. We worked
with his school to ensure they follow the Ontario Human Rights Code. We got
Noah into the Transgender Youth Clinic at SickKids. We joined a parent support
group. Michelle joined PFLAG and took a parenting course for parents of
transgender youth. But we have struggled to find Noah peer support. We
will never understand how it feels to be born into the wrong body, or how it
feels to be 13 years old and the only kid transgender at school. We will never experience the stress and
isolation he will experience as a transgender boy. Michelle researched LGBTQ youth groups across Toronto.
While there are great programs for trans youth at Central Toronto Youth
Services and SOY, these program cater to older teens and young adults. There is
a huge difference developmentally between a 17-year-old and a 13-year-old. We
wanted to try to get Noah to be with kids his own age. We couldn’t find any programs for LGBTQ tweens and
young teens in Toronto. Though PFLAG, and the SickKids Parent Group we learned
that other parents are facing this same obstacle. We decided to do something about it. We
approached Delisle Youth Services (now known as Skylark) in June about starting a tween – young teen drop-in program, and they
recognized the need for a program like this and said yes. The program will run three Fridays a month from 4:00
to 6:30 for LGBTQ kids and their allies who are between 12 to 15 years old. It
will be free. We expect about 20 kids per week. There will be snacks and
programing provided by professional staff. We want to create a safe place where
LGBTQ kids can find community and have fun. We want these kids to know that
they are not alone. The cost of running this tween program is budgeted at
$20,000 a year. We have committed to raising the money to fund this program. We
are asking family and friends to join us in funding this program. We want to
show Noah and other youth that this community supports him and other LGBTQ
youth. Please support our cause by donating. Michelle and Chris Sparrow
[i] http://transpulseproject.ca/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Impacts-of-Strong-Parental-Support-for-Trans-Youth-vFINAL.pdf
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Please provide your contact and payment information. The contact information is required to generate a tax receipt. The electronic tax receipt will be sent to the email address that you provide. If you are having difficulty with your donation, please contact Jennifer Lui, Development Officer at jennifer.lui@skylarkyouth.org or 416-395-0660 ext. 318 for support.
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